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I wanted to write a book to inspire, to keep the dream alive, recording into austerity the role one can play as a corner man – both literally and figuratively in the boxing ring and out of it. This is role I have played; having been the corner man to many boxers, rural boys and girls; in their corner at three World Championships, three Commonwealth Games, two Asian Games and over 300 international fights, and most significantly I accompanied a boxer to the Olympics in 2008. Thus the idea of the book, ‘Cornerman’, crystallised.
Things changed in March 2012, when I was awaken to my own mortality. A stark realisation that what we take for granted is what matters most. In that one moment, time stood still as I looked beyond my own health condition to what was left ‘unfinished,’ that which was left ‘unsaid’. After my heart bypass surgery, with renewed vigour I gave myself three years to set in motion action plans for the unfinished – a succession plan for MAS Intimates, a strategy for sustaining boxing and fencing Sri Lanka, and of course the unsaid is now realised in the form of ‘Cornerman’.
When I discussed the idea of the boxing book with three colleagues selected to narrate this, they pointed out that being a cornerman was not defined by a boxing ring, but by a role I play in people’s lives, whatever be the field. They proposed we extend this to include my corporate life, especially the glory days of Pannala; where the ethos of the cornerman flourished.
The book therefore is a selection of stories from my sport and professional lives. They are but two sides of a whole, never did they take separate paths of my life, but is one whole construct of my personality and passion. These are the stories that warrant re-telling because of the lessons. Something I hope will inspire others – both in boxing, in other sports and of course in the corporate arena.
Q: Going through the book I see a lot of passion, tenacity and a unique style of leadership to a make a real difference. How and where did this all begin?
A: It began way back during my boxing days at Royal College, in the mid-’70s. The boxing ring is the ultimate equaliser. Family backgrounds, political connections and wealth will not get you in you in the ring. If you do not have the will, the hunger to win, the speed and the reflexes, you will be kissing the canvass in no time.
This was strengthened when I moved to Pannala in 1992 to become the Chief Executive of Slimline. I saw hardships and humility of the villagers and my colleagues, the daily tragedies that made them stronger. The emotions were more genuine, the interactions more sincere; life was simple, heartfelt and real. I soon realised that it was important to create opportunities for people, so they can go beyond their potential.
The ethos of the cornerman is, therefore, prevalent in my leadership style, in the culture of MAS Intimates and in boxing Sri Lanka today. It is all about how to empower your team to win. It is about how to fix the team and the combination so they go on to win without fear. They can dream of becoming a global company and winning Olympic gold medals. Given the right motivation and ignition of the passion, Sri Lankans can pursue this dream and win the world. I believe in crafting heroes of everyman! Be it in the sports or corporate arena.
Q: Was there one event that you have talked about in the book that pushed you over the edge while playing the role of cornerman to many young budding athletes/leaders?
A: I would say that it was taking a boxer, Anuruddha Ratnayake, to the Beijing Olympics in 2008. When Anuruddha, qualified for the Olympics at the 2007 World Championships in Chicago, it was us leaping towards realising a dream of a boxing medal at the Olympics. Having the honour of representing Sri Lanka as Chef de Mission, and being able to accompany this boxer to the Games, made me euphoric.
During a bout, the role of the cornerman is different that of the coach. At the moment we walk out with the boxer onto the ring or during the one minute breaks at the end of each round, the coach will advise on technique and strategy – he talks to the boxer’s brain and body. Then the cornerman takes over, he talks to the fighter trapped inside the body, it is the job of the cornerman to set that fighter free. Those last words are critical because at this time the fighter is totally focusing on his corner-man. For MAS’ own boxers this is multiplied. As their mentor, their father and advisor they tend to hang on my every word at this point.
Qualifying for the 2008 Beijing Olympics was achievement enough, but securing a medal meant a preparation regime for Anuruddha like no other seen in boxing in Sri Lanka. Then dawned the day of Anuruddha’s first preliminary bout at the Olympics, against Brazilian Robenilson Vieira. For me this was the culmination of a life dedicated to my passion, Boxing. The hard work put in by countless people to bring boxing in Sri Lanka to this point. If Anuruddha won the preliminary bout, we would be closer to our Olympic dream.
That moment of leading the boxer into the Olympic boxing arena, into the ring, is a rush of adrenaline. But, it is also rife with stress, the weight of the dreams and aspirations of a nation. Words of encouragement I talk to him – of the entire population of Sri Lanka who are marching into the arena with us, in spirit. And then I say the words “putha, balala gahanna”. Words that would haunt me to this day. Did these words curb the natural fighter that was Anuruddha? Did it cage the beast into the glory of the Olympic? Did it circumscribe Anuruddha and restrain his ferocity? Or was this another situation where the nemesis of stature came in the form of the tall and lanky Robinelson, hitting home yet again the problem that had plagued our boxers – height.
Had I succumb to the strain of it all? Is our boxing journey, resplendent with stories of heroism and the young rural lads and lasses who surpassed all odds, going to end in a whimper at the first bout in Beijing? This goes to illustrate the importance of the role one plays at the corner. This can also be translated to corporate life.
Q: Your book reminds us about the true role of a mentor in an Organisation. What are some of the key lessons you learnt in the boxing ring that you have used well at MAS to build and grow your brand of leaders?
A: “If you stumble or fall, or if tragedy strikes, I will be there at your corner, and so will my men and women.” This is who we are, this is our leadership brand – it is always personal, it is always about the individual and not the employee. The corporate culture bequeaths an unwritten assurance that the company will always be there for you. Your personal growth is as important as organisational growth.
Lessons from the ring that we live in our daily corporate lives at Intimates include: